Love That Lasts Is Love That’s Tended

Love, much like a beautiful garden, doesn't simply bloom and flourish all on its own. While it might be lovely to imagine it does, the truth is that for love to truly last, it needs care, attention, and a little bit of tending every single day. Think of it: a garden isn't just lucky to be vibrant and full of life; it's because someone has taken the time to water it, pull out the weeds, and keep a watchful eye on its growth

 💡 Love, like a garden, doesn’t bloom on autopilot. 

 💡It must be watered, weeded, and watched.

 💡The couples that last aren’t just lucky—they’re intentional. 

 💡They check in, reconnect, laugh often, and fight fair.

 ✨ Today’s Challenge: Ask your partner or future partner, “What makes you feel most loved lately?”

The same goes for our most precious relationships. The couples who enjoy a love that stands the test of time aren't just fortunate – they're wonderfully intentional. They understand that love isn't a destination, but a journey that requires ongoing effort. They make time to check in with each other, they find ways to reconnect, and they remember to laugh often. And, just as importantly, they learn to fight fair, knowing that even disagreements can be an opportunity to strengthen their bond.

It's those small, consistent acts that truly make all the difference. A thoughtful word, a shared cup of tea, a silly joke – these are the gentle drops of water that keep your love garden thriving. It’s about being present, truly listening, and showing up for one another in all the little moments, not just the grand gestures.

Today’s Challenge

Why not take a moment today to nurture your own love story? Ask your partner, or even your future partner, this simple yet powerful question:

"What makes you feel most loved lately?"

You might be surprised by their answer, and it could open up a lovely conversation about how you can both continue to make your love feel cherished and vibrant.

Share Your Thoughts

What’s one small act that keeps love growing in your life? We’d love to hear your ideas in the comments!

@NHLC: Remember, if you ever feel like you could use a little guidance in tending your relationship garden, we're here to help. We coach for free, so feel free to send us a DM.